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akayo · 05-05-2008, 07:56 PM

i am searching for advice and this blog seems to a great place to ask. so here goes my story.
i met this girl and from the first time i’ve seen her i knew she’s the girl for me. we started out texting each other and a few phone calls here and there. and when we do go out, she gives out all the right body languages, leaning toward me while i’m driving, turns her body all the way to face me face to face, give lame excuses (like i hv a splinter) so that i can touch her hand.
make a long story short, all the signs were there, texts me when she gets home etc blah blah, u get the picture. the problem is … out of blue she stop calling, texting, and is acting very distant and cold….
i am wondering if she lost interest bcuz i didnt make a move. if so how can i re-kindle that fire that we had. i have a feeling there might be another guy involve now. and yes .. i was a wuss .. i saw all the signs and chickened out .. and now i think i’m in the “friend zone” i am desperate… please help!!!!!

05-05-2008, 07:56 PM	#1 (permalink)
akayo RAD Member Join Date: May 2008 Location: LA, CA Posts: 2 Rep Power: 17	how to get a 2nd chance i am searching for advice and this blog seems to a great place to ask. so here goes my story. i met this girl and from the first time i’ve seen her i knew she’s the girl for me. we started out texting each other and a few phone calls here and there. and when we do go out, she gives out all the right body languages, leaning toward me while i’m driving, turns her body all the way to face me face to face, give lame excuses (like i hv a splinter) so that i can touch her hand. make a long story short, all the signs were there, texts me when she gets home etc blah blah, u get the picture. the problem is … out of blue she stop calling, texting, and is acting very distant and cold…. i am wondering if she lost interest bcuz i didnt make a move. if so how can i re-kindle that fire that we had. i have a feeling there might be another guy involve now. and yes .. i was a wuss .. i saw all the signs and chickened out .. and now i think i’m in the “friend zone” i am desperate… please help!!!!!