how to get a 2nd chance

[akayo]

i am searching for advice and this blog seems to a great place to ask. so here goes my story.
i met this girl and from the first time i’ve seen her i knew she’s the girl for me. we started out texting each other and a few phone calls here and there. and when we do go out, she gives out all the right body languages, leaning toward me while i’m driving, turns her body all the way to face me face to face, give lame excuses (like i hv a splinter) so that i can touch her hand.
make a long story short, all the signs were there, texts me when she gets home etc blah blah, u get the picture. the problem is … out of blue she stop calling, texting, and is acting very distant and cold….
i am wondering if she lost interest bcuz i didnt make a move. if so how can i re-kindle that fire that we had. i have a feeling there might be another guy involve now. and yes .. i was a wuss .. i saw all the signs and chickened out .. and now i think i’m in the “friend zone” i am desperate… please help!!!!!

[robert]

Well, were you being yourself? If she chooses not to be that interested in you based on you being yourself, then thats just the way it is. Girls come and go, it might not of been anything that you did or didn't do. Sometimes people don't know what they want, she was having a good time with you, but then just happened to meet someone else and she thinks they are more what she is looking for. It happens. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Just be yourself, act how you act, be the person you are; and you'll find the right girl for you sooner or later.

[akayo]

thanks for the brutal but honest advice robert!

[danielle]

Hi,
I think this will definitely help u